Ron Gutman: The hidden power of smiling
Validation
Also this video, although it's old
If we divided people into 3 types, it will be:
- Aggressive
- Mediocre
- Smiling
The Aggressive turns the Mediocre into Desperate but it's still alive because of the Smiling. The Smiling feels motivated when he spread the smile between the Desperate people but when fail to spread the smile, desperation comes instead and he loses confidence in the ability to spread the smiles.
The Smiling turns the Mediocre into Happy but not that much because of the Aggressive. The Aggressive feels alone when he's the only one not smiling, but he may steal away others smiles because it's disturbing his inner peace.
If the Smiling stopped getting people to smile, he'll get desperate which means the smiles will Vanish. If the Aggressive stopped stealing smiles from others. Smiles will spread and occupies the Aggressive and that's the point.
The Aggressive's Job is to steal smiles & that's illegal, don't let it happen.
The Smiling's Job is to spread smiles & that what we want, support him.
The Mediocre's Job is to go with the wind and this is because his "Inner Turbulence"
Only Mediocre people who have that Inner Turbulence as he's affected greatly with external factors which means that he can't control external forces or he don't even control them, which means that his soul is insecure and unstable, changing from state to state. Don't be Mediocre Please.