First, I want you to see this video, so you can get my point correctly !!
Children See... Children Do
It's a Fact that any person's behavior is mainly affected by his Parents. Kids imitate without thinking about being wrong or right. Sometimes we feel that our parents weren't children before but they were children, and it can be easily inferred that they were also Copying Machines from their parents, and so on. But WHY? Don't these people have minds to use?? Why they're following the same way of their Parents??
I'll always believe in the old saying:
"اقلب القدرة علي فمها, تطلع البنت لأمها"
On the other hand, why do some people hate their Parents TOTALLY, and wish to do every thing that opposes their Parents?
When I asked myself this question, I felt the most convenient answer was "Respect". It's about putting someone in a certain position whether it was Totally Respected or Humiliated, it's your decision even to respect or to humiliate, and to be respected or humiliated.
The Power to Inspire comes from Highly Respected & Respecting relationships. It's a relation built on both terminals to respect each others. When you meet new different people, don't you feel that some of them have to be Respected? Although you've never talked with. You can just see it in his eyes, you can see the power, but when a friend tells you how loser he is, you know he's just faking it.
People may feel you Powerful and in total Control, but sadly a friend tells them that you're not that powerful, and sadly this friend is You.
If you want to let people feel your Power, you must feel it yourself and believe that you GOT IT, not just faking it.
He who knows others is wise. He who knows himself is enlightened. Lao Tzu
3 comments:
"The Power to Inspire comes from Highly Respected & Respecting People. It's easy to respect, but it's not easy to gain respect."
"If you want to let people feel your Power, you must feel it yourself and believe that you've Got this Power not just faking it. Have Inner Peace, so you can get Control"
Hats OFF, Mr Maged! =) =) Jozita Khayran =)
There was a quote that I love, it says "Trust is the matter of decades, So Aim for the heart... Cause They'll Never care how much you know until they know How much you care"
and the Key to trust is RESPECT =)
and we all hear this from a very young age "احترم نفسك علشان الناس تحترمك" =) and that gives you infinite Power to influence =)
So, we have to take good care of this point very much as it changes LIVES =)
JAK Again =)
Yess Mayy,You'll always feel my words :D
I'm sooo Glad that You liked it :):)
I always love your words :) JAK and Rabena je3alhom fi mizan 7assanatak :)
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